A journalist under scrutiny, highlighting the dangers of verbal abuse from powerful leaders.

If the nation shrugs at Trump calling a woman journalist “piggy,” it’s clear the problem is bigger than one man.

On Nov. 14, 2025, aboard Air Force One, the President of the United States pointed at Bloomberg reporter Catherine Lucey and snapped, “Quiet. Quiet, piggy.” Why? She had the audacity to ask him a legitimate question about the Epstein files.

Days later, instead of apologizing, the White House defended him and implied that she somehow brought it on herself — that she was “inappropriate” and “unprofessional.”

So let’s be clear: Calling a woman “piggy” from the most powerful office in the world is abuse, not banter.

Suggesting she brought it on herself is classic abuser logic. And when the “CEO of the free world” behaves this way in front of cameras, he is not just expressing a personal opinion — he is modeling a pattern.

Verbal Abuse and Violence: What Data Actually Shows

Public health and domestic-violence research has been warning us for years:

  • The CDC identifies hostility toward women and attitudes that justify aggression as key risk factors for intimate partner violence.
  • CDC materials and other IPV research note that abuse often begins with emotional and psychological attacks — name-calling, humiliation, and verbal degradation — which can escalate over time into physical violence.

Before the shove, there is the sneer.
Before the bruise, there is the insult.
Before the blow, there is the belittling.

And while October’s Domestic Violence Awareness Month has just passed, the deeper concern is not timing at all. It is the pattern. Rudeness is one thing; humiliation is another.

What the president displayed is the same kind of demeaning, belittling language that experts warn often mirrors the early stages of emotional abuse. The fact that this happened so soon after a national month of education and awareness only sharpens the contrast between what we claim to value and what we tolerate from our highest office.

We cannot claim to care about domestic violence and then shrug when the president publicly body-shames a woman and blames her for it.

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Frances Murphy (Toni) Draper
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