Suicide Awareness and Prevention: Every Life Matters

He was 42 years old, a father of two, and known for making others laugh. Yet behind the smiles, he carried a silent weight, financial pressures, untreated depression, and a sense of isolation he felt he could not share. His family knew he was stressed, but they never imagined the pain had become unbearable. One morning, he did not show up for work. That evening, his life was gone, and his loved ones were left with heartbreak, unanswered questions, and the haunting thought: What could we have done?

This story is not about one man. It reflects the painful reality faced by families worldwide. No one is exempt from life pressures. Each year, across the globe, more than 700,000 people die by suicide, making it a major public health concern (World Health Organization [WHO], 2021). Every number is a life cut short and a reminder of how urgently we must respond.

The Causes of Suicide

Suicide is never caused by a single factor. It is the result of an interaction between biological, psychological, social, and environmental influences (Turecki & Brent, 2016). Common risk factors include:

Mental health conditions such as depression or substance use disorders.
Chronic stressors, including unemployment or relationship struggles.
Trauma and abuse, which leave deep emotional scars.
Social isolation, where individuals feel cut off from meaningful support.
Access to lethal means, which can turn a moment of crisis into tragedy.

Risk factors increase vulnerability, but suicide is not inevitable. What often determines survival is whether individuals feel supported, understood, and connected.

Lowering Suicide Risks

Protective factors can reduce the likelihood of suicide. These include strong social connections, access to culturally appropriate and sensitive mental health care, a sense of purpose, and cultural or spiritual practices that affirm life (WHO, 2021; Centers for Disease Control and Prevention [CDC], 2023). Even simple actions, like a trusted friend asking “How are you, really?”, can open a door to hope.

Why Talking About Suicide Matters

A harmful myth suggests that asking about suicide might “plant the idea.” Research proves the opposite: asking directly and compassionately reduces distress and increases the chance a person seeks help (Dazzi et al., 2014). Silence, however, reinforces shame and isolation.

Conversations should be empathetic, not judgmental. Listening, showing care, and encouraging professional support can make the difference between despair and survival.

How to Ask Compassionately About Suicide

When worried about someone, it is important to ask directly and with care:

Starting with concern

“I’ve noticed you haven’t seemed yourself lately. Can we talk about how you’re really doing?”

“It looks like you’re carrying a lot right now. How are you holding up?”

Asking directly about suicide

“Sometimes when people feel overwhelmed, they think about ending their life. Have you been thinking about that?”

“Are you having thoughts of suicide?”

Offering support

“Thank you for trusting me. You don’t have to go through this alone; let’s find someone who can help.”

“I care about you and want you safe. Can we talk about reaching out to a counselor or hotline?”

Please avoid minimizing (“You’ll be fine”), judging (“That’s selfish”), or delaying. If someone expresses suicidal thoughts, take it seriously and connect them to immediate help.

A Worldwide Issue, A Shared Duty

Suicide affects people of every culture and background. While expressions of distress may differ, the needs for dignity, connection, and hope are universal. Prevention requires both personal compassion and systemic change.

At the individual level, this means checking in with loved ones, encouraging professional help, and speaking openly to reduce stigma.

At the societal level, it means expanding affordable, accessible mental health services, evaluating and monitoring the implementation of mental health services, strengthening community networks, and reducing access to lethal means through evidence-based policies (WHO, 2021).

Your Life Matters

To those who are struggling: your life has meaning. Reaching out for help is not weakness, it is courage.

To families and communities: presence matters. Sometimes the most powerful gift we can give is to listen without judgment and remind someone they are not alone.

Suicide prevention is not just a health issue; it is a human one. By breaking silence, extending compassion, and building supportive systems, we can save lives and create communities where hope is stronger than despair.

References

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2023). Suicide prevention: Risk and protective factors.

Dazzi, T., Gribble, R., Wessely, S., & Fear, N. T. (2014). Does asking about suicide and related behaviours induce suicidal ideation? What is the evidence? Psychological Medicine, 44(16), 3361–3363.

Turecki, G., & Brent, D. A. (2016). Suicide and suicidal behaviour. The Lancet, 387(10024), 1227–1239.

World Health Organization. (2021). Suicide worldwide in 2019: Global health estimates. WHO.

Dr. Frederick Echols, MD, is available as a subject matter expert on public health for press interviews and speaking engagements.

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About Dr. Fredrick Echols, MD

Dr. Fredrick L. Echols, MD is the founder and Chief Executive Officer of Population Health and Social Justice Consulting, LLC, an Obama Foundation Global Leader, sought-after public speaker, black men’s health advocate, and accomplished physician with over 15 years of experience in public health. He has worked extensively with public and private sectors to address complex health issues through evidence-informed approaches. Dr. Echols is a graduate of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Population Health Training in Place program and the ASTHO-Morehouse School of Medicine’s Diverse Executives Leading in Public Health program.

Passionate about health and justice, Dr . Echols’ notable roles include serving as Chief Executive Officer for Cure Violence Global, Health Commissioner for the City of St. Louis, and Director of Communicable Disease and Emergency Preparedness for the St. Louis County Department of Public Health. In these roles, he oversaw public health regulations, led COVID-19 response efforts, managed daily operations, and developed strategic partnerships. Dr. Echols also served as Chief of Communicable Diseases for the Illinois Department of Public Health and as a physician in the U.S. Navy. He continues to contribute to public health research and guides health organizations globally.